Driven to the wall

Believe it or not, there are some people here in Singapore that are badly driven to the wall by $$$, burdened by the huge debt. If u owe the bank $$$, it ish still OK cos at most it ish just bankruptcy, just have to be more thrifty and humble. However... if you were to owe someone u know a hefty sum... Things can turn reli nasty.... You will be despised, mocked and you wont even have the "right" to speak up.

Furthermore. relationships are so damn frail and fragile this days that even the slightest misunderstandings and perceptions can totally destroy it, 经不起一点风浪 and it would be worst if the problem ish not cleared up... Things will just get worst! Well... it really pains to see someone that u cared about suffering... And to make it worst, to c two of them suffer... Everyone has their 苦衷，yet cannot be brought out, just like 哑巴吃苦瓜，有苦难言。 Conversely, an angry person never halt to consider other's difficulties, other's hardship; possibly too bothered by their own worries...

If everyone can take a min in life to think back on their actions, maybe this world would made more peaceful...

If one could think of the other's hardship and pain... He would have understood.
If one would remember all the happy memories before getting angry... He would have forgiven.
If one values the relationship... He would have compromised
But Sadly... Once anger took over, one becomes so irrational... When the seeds of hatred is planted, its root will just engrave into the once open heart and grow into a pricky and thorny plant. It will just suck dry all the warmth and love to reap and bear the fruit called grudge. Till then, there is no completely ground left for explanation, only arguments.

So... Why not forgive and forget??? Life ish short and it could even be torturous at times, why then would one want to suffer or even inflict suffering onto others? I don understand... Seriously don understand... Y cant life be simple?

"If it take a strong man to weep. Damned I swear it is painful! Painful beyond description...."